Category: Lifestyle

My longest relationship was 4 weeks long. Go ahead, say I’m too picky or that I’m too distracted at work or that I’m not emotionally available – everyone else has. It’s opinions like these that convinced me something was wrong; the longer I listened, the more I beat myself up. I felt pressure to find […]

First of all, congratulations on tying the knot! This has been such a long and bumpy ride, but now that same-sex marriages are legal in all 50 states, it’s time to celebrate. And apart from organizing the most unforgettable wedding party, it’s also time for us to start thinking about the honeymoon. Bear in mind […]

When someone is diagnosed with a mental health disorder such as depression or anxiety, first line treatments usually include psychological therapies and medication. What’s not always discussed are the changeable lifestyle factors that influence our mental health. Even those who don’t have a mental health condition may still be looking for ways to further improve their mood, […]

72 per cent of LGBTI participants said they experienced mental health issues as a result of work. A study out of the UK has found that 32 per cent of workers in managerial positions stay in the closet out of fear of discrimination. The study, published by responsible business organisation Business in the Community, looks into […]

Introverts get a bad rap, man. Gay guys typically say they want to marry an introvert but would rather sex with extroverts. Trouble is, in a community where everything revolves around sex, us introverts begin to wonder if it’s ever going to be our turn. Introverts are sexy as hell, but only when we truly […]

Just because you’re masculine doesn’t mean you’re a TOP I’m a 33-year old gay man living in New York City. I’m a mechanic, live in a bachelor-sized apartment, drive a motorcycle, and workout six times a week. If you look at me you’d think I’m as straight as they come (or so I’m told). But […]

Let’s face it. Gay guys flirt all the time with each other. So much so we’ve gotten to a point where we don’t know we’re doing it. You see a guy at the farmer’s market, you make eye contact, you think he’s flirting until his wife and children come up behind him – was he […]

Making a good impression is on everyone’s mind. Whether we care to see it or not, a first impression can stay with us days, weeks, and even months after meeting a person. But stop worrying! The more we get in our heads, the more anxious we’ll be. All it takes to make a positive impression […]

There are plenty of ways to verbally express your affection for someone other than saying “I love you.” Sometimes, expressing your love without saying it can be more powerful. So here are ten things you should say (in addition to the gold standard of “I love you.”) to show your partner how much you truly care about them! […]

Straight guys and gay men are two peas in a pod. If they’re the yin, we’re undoubtably the yang. For most gay guys, starting a friendship with a straighty can be fantastic. Unfortunately for many straight men out there, getting too close to a gay guy seems like unchartered territory. But I’m here to tell […]