Turning 40 can seem truly catastrophic for gay guys, but stop panicking. It truly isn’t the end of the world, no matter how it might seem. Now that you’re older (sorry), it doesn’t mean you have to give up all the fun, stylish clothing and start dressing like your grandpa—it simply means you might decide to give your wardrobe a little shakeup. So if you want to elevate your style and look more mature and put together, here are a few style tips for gay guys over 40.
Clean out your closet
People in their 40s usually have a more stable income and don’t have to hold on to every little piece of clothing from the past. Set one day aside to dive into your closet and inspect all your pieces. Everything you don’t like anymore and everything that doesn’t fit you should be donated or repaired by a tailor. We know it’s hard to hear this, but unless you’re ripped, it’s time to let go of those tight tank tops and crop tops. While you can certainly wear whatever you feel comfortable and sexy in, these sleeveless and stomachless shirts only look hot on toned dudes.
Mix muted patterns
Patterns add interest to your outfits, even if you prefer to dress minimalist and conservative. And don’t hesitate to mix patterns, especially muted ones that will still help you look elegant and mysterious. For instance, you can combine a floral suit jacket with simple pants, a floral hoodie, or a striped shirt to add flair to your outfits. And these are basically ageless if you’re worried about looking immature.
Tailor your clothes
You should have been doing this from the beginning, but now that you have a bit more dough in your pocket, you can start tailoring your clothes. If none of the clothes straight from the rack fit you anymore, it’s time to visit a tailor and adjust them to fit your body to the T. This is especially true with suits which should always be tailored. Once you try truly high-quality suit tailoring, you’ll feel like a king and enjoy immeasurable comfort and style. This is the best way to look amazing, even if you have gained a few pounds in the last decade. Your tailor will know how to fit the clothes to hide all the imperfections and highlight your best attributes.
Accessorize the house down
Accessories can make or break your outfit, and this is where one can notice the true fashion sense in someone. No matter if you prefer to exhibit more masc or femme energy, accessories are a must for all gay men. And include all accessories to your looks, including necklaces, bracelets, and rings (not every item you have at once, of course). Go as little or extra as you feel comfortable. And if you don’t like to experiment, a quality watch will always attract the right attention and look more than appropriate for your age. If you love your title of a sugar daddy, a stylish leather or even carbon fiber wallet will look sleek when you whip it out.
Give athleisure a try
For many gay guys, athleisure is something to be frowned upon, but have you seen all the amazing looks people have been pulling off whit this style? If you want to look absolutely sleek and elegant yet be comfortable at work, after gym and during your nights out, try mixing athletic wear with your more formal pieces. For instance, stylish fitted bottoms paired with a fitted t-shirt and dress sneakers will turn you into a tasty snack while also allowing you to enjoy your brunch with the girls to the fullest.
As you can see, your 40s can be your best gay years so far. You’ll not only feel much more comfortable in your skin and secure in your sexuality (this comes with age and experience) but you’ll also dress better than you did in your 20s.
